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Carrie Kong May Yee, my dearest lovely best friend passed away in the morning on 16th July 2007.
She was 8 months old pregnant, her first child.
Is a baby boy.
Everything happens in splits seconds.

Sitting at her house sofa awaiting for her husband to go to work.
Little does she know what was actually awaiting for her...
Her husband called her name..no reply..
He called again...no reply..he rushed to her...and thought that she has fallen asleep.
but panic arising..
again and again..he repeated her names...he tried to wake up her up from her slumber.
to no avail..
she had stop breathing
no signs of hearbeat.
her husband was so miserably shaken and he rushed out to neighbour to call for ambulance
while he conduct CPR on Carrie.
The CPR fails to revive her.
The St Johns came..
She was pronounced death on the same spot.
She was rushed to HUKM A&E and husband was asked whether he wants to rescue the child first
but the child might have high possibility of brain damage..due to lack of oxygen
husband chose to rescue Carrie first
all sort of equipments and ways...to revive her.
but to no avail..
she has passed away...
and the baby has passed away too...

Suspected pregnancy induced stroke.
that sofa she was sitting while waiting to go to work.
the sofa she has seated to watch all her movies with her husband
the sofa i have seated to watch your lovely wedding movies and pictures

Her O&G(Obstetrician Gynaecologist) follow up dr was taken aback when we told him too.
We ask for a report from him. Her blood pressure record was normal, cholesterol, baby weights and her weights are all normal. He couldnt tell the definite cause.. it is really rare.
He suspected either it is arrhythmia (irregular hearbeat) or deep vein thrombosis (flow of blood is clogged up in vein)...both can happen in sudden with no symptoms usually.
I asked what is the possibility of a person getting this......
1 in 10,000
why must in 10, 000 , that 1 person is her.....she is so young..too young..
too damn young...she is pregnant...how could the selection be such way...
i know most of you wanted to know the reasons...
i hope this brief illustration, maybe not be very exact..could helps in answering your curiousity.
however, in 2 to 3 weeks time only the post-mortem reports may (or may not) tell the actual cause of death...
watever the report might be, i m not concern...coz watever the report is...it wont revive the Carrie Kong i know..
For, I know now, i have lost my best friend in my life..she is like my sister for 20+ years...
Carrie, until my last breath in this world, i will remember you forever. Eternity, as you said

"Sweet memories are to be shared and remembered, as it will lasts for eternity!"
-Carrie Kong May Yee